WHEN you act according to the wishes of others and suppress your own desires, it means that you have identified part of yourself with other people. You allow them to enter and dominate your mind so that you experience fragmentation as well. This occurs through invalidation, or “guiding others.” When someone tells you that your efforts are “not good enough” or that you “shouldn’t have done that,” you begin to question yourself. You start to introspect and ask, “Is there something wrong with me?”
The Positive Approach
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WHEN you act according to the wishes of others and suppress your own desires, it means that you have identified part of yourself with other people. You allow them to enter and dominate your mind so that you experience fragmentation as well. This occurs through invalidation, or “guiding others.” When someone tells you that your efforts are “not good enough” or that you “shouldn’t have done that,” you begin to question yourself. You start to introspect and ask, “Is there something wrong with me?”